Just because he’s the one with a cock cage on, doesn’t mean you can’t get tied up if you enjoy it!
Why not get him to tie you up and then suggest he persuade you to confess where you hid the keys, with just his tongue…
Absolutely. Just because he is in a cage doesn’t mean the scope of Her fantasies has to stop at the bounds of his cage. She can explore all Her deepest desires with an enthusiastic, motivated lover.
You see a lot of depictions on tumblr of what submission looks like, the vast majority from during the act of sexual play itself.
But this is a wonderful image of submission, one of the very best, actually. Her higher than him, him accepting his place beneath her level, her slightest affections his whole world.
This is what the aftermath of a perfect D/s play session looks like. My advice would be to aspire to it.






